8 Signs Destruction of Households

 Hello everyone to day admin Duniku Techno wanna to share an article about Destruction of Household. This may have happened to one of us, and may also be less sensitive to this sign, so that the household harmony becomes chaotic and can be destroyed. The following are signs of household destruction:

1. Decreased intimacy

All romance enjoyed by newly married couples certainly decreased portion over the length of time of marriage, but now, not only the level of romance. The harmony seems to be over. No more sweet kisses, tight handrails while enjoying the togetherness, even the warm embrace that is usually done when watching a movie was to any where gone. Intimacy begins to diminish and decreases every day, often not even at all.

2. Loss of interest

The reason you marry him is because he is very interested in him, and vice versa. It is also usually always successful to tighten the relationship of marriage, all this time. But now, what happens is you feel no longer have an interest in him, the marriage that is still running, and on the life together that you live with him.

3. Communication is deteriorating

Usually you and your spouse spend time chatting for hours. Now, when one starts to open a topic, the chat feels empty and loses its greget. No more ngalor ngidul chat who can spend time, and full of laughter. The only thing left now is the stale, unpleasant routine of conversation and even tense.

4. No more attempts to understand each other

When you or your partner show a sense of dissatisfaction with something, the argument must always explode. Because you, or him, begin to respond to such a natural situation as something that is very disturbing and does not even need to happen at all. There was no more sense of empathy in each other. The worst thing is, there is no longer the motivation to find solutions from various small problems experienced.

5. Switch priorities

You and your spouse, or both, spend less time together. Now more time spent with others outdoors. Whether it's just a walk with friends, a friend, even to spend the weekend with relatives and parents. Spending time with your partner is no longer a priority. The most dangerous is, the times that each individual is also often used as an excuse to start a relationship with others.

6. Routine quarreling

Whatever you and your spouse talk about is no longer important, because all the talk usually ends with a loud argument that makes you with a big fight. It feels like it's just because you and your partner want to quarrel, not in an attempt to discuss something, or just the spice of marriage.

7. The loss of mutual respect

Positive comments and praise have begun to change with rough criticism, all the time. You or yourself begin to often say hurtful words, for every aspect, such as physical appearance, individual behavior and even insults to those around you and your spouse (friends, family, boss). In general, both of you have completely lost the respect of one another.

8. Drown in new passions

Out of nowhere, suddenly he (or both of you) starts to have a new passion, which is not to be enjoyed alone. Yes, indeed every couple requires me time every now and then, but this new hobby is different. This seems to be a reason to make him spend more time outdoors, away from you.
The longer you marry, there will be few (or many) changes that occur in the relationship that is lived. But those eight signs are something you must watch out for, because maybe your marriage is already at a dangerous point. Nevertheless, do not give up yes. There is always a way to rebuild a strong and happy marriage.
Because, you are not married for no reason; then restore your relationship to these important reasons. Make every effort to restore the love that is now beginning to lose direction.
Both of you may have to make a very hard and challenging effort to save the marriage. But it's okay, right? Marriage is something to be fought with all the effort you have. Do everything. Do it for yourself, for the children, and for the good of the whole family. There is nothing more beautiful than a happy family.